If you don't have a problem with oral sex, that's a good start for her. You could do that to her climax and then start intercourse from there. Most women I've found need more than one orgasm anyway. One of my wives could get as much as six and often four in a row. She was an exception. Most seem to be done with two, sometimes just one.
Stimulate her clitoris and use fingers to gently palpitate the underside of her pelvic bone. There actually is a "G" spot there. Much too late in life I learned that.
For intercourse, her on top seems the most effective for women. They can do what they need there. You can help with a thumb in the right place and some movement on your part. Don't stop when she is climaxing, even if she stops. Just tone down to more gentle movement.
The biggest secret to pleasing women is pretty simple. Ask them what they like. If they don't know either, start experimenting. That's how I learned, along with some reading. I started pretty ignorant, knew that, and realized so were most men then. But then, I also like exploring and finding solutions to problems.
That about exhausts what I know. It's not so much but it seems to work.How to reduce the pain during sex when i enter my girlfriend?
I hate being on top
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How to reduce the pain during sex when i enter my girlfriend?You need lubrication. Try KY jelly, saliva and more foreplay.There is not a problem really, your girlfriend is just worried (first because she was a virgin, and now because it has hurt her everytime) You need to make her feel relaxed, by massaging her %26amp; stroking her, kissing her - anything but going straight for the intercourse.
I strongly recommend buying some lube - rub it on yourself and on her and it will slip in much easier (it will also help during the foreplay too) Once you get better at the process (it does take practice) you might not need to use the lube - but some people do.
PS it's really good that you are concerned and that you have tried to be gentle
Don't go to having sex first. You do foreplay that way she will be aroused and lubricated (wet) to be able to proceed to sex. It will hurt her a few times as she is being stretched a little bit. Just be patient with her and take your time and don't rush. She needs to be really aroused and after that it might not hurt. If she has a hard time lubricating on her own you can use KY Jelly, Astroglide or any other lubricant that you can get at the store. You can ask the pharmacist which lubricant is best. Hope this helps :)How to reduce the pain during sex when i enter my girlfriend?Welll it would really help if she was wet not by spit or lube her own juices work the best foreplay is the best make sure all your forplay is really soft shes new to this so after a couple of times it shouldnt hurt naymore sepcially if shes wet also give it a couple a days in between sex the first few times so she has time to heal and ajust the there is no best way to have sex every gurl likes it at least a little different you must find out what makes her turn on wich will be a littl harder since shes newHow to reduce the pain during sex when i enter my girlfriend?
have more foreplay, try going down on her, or sucking on her clit and fingering her at the same time to make her really wet, or just ask her what turns her on, i get turned on from giving head to my bf, but that could be a personal thing. you need to be open and honest with each other if you are going to share something so special. also best way is definitely missionary or cowgirl if in the shower.
a woman has natual lubrication. Whens she doesn
t have that then that is when the vagina gets dry. The only way to solve that problem is trying foreplay Also, lubrivcation and she we will ge use to it and maybe not have in her mind that it will hurt everytime. Good luck.How to reduce the pain during sex when i enter my girlfriend?
Just go really slow, use a good lube and MOST IMPORTANT: Make sure she is comfortable, relaxed and aroused. You giving her oral sex beforehand can really help here. Find out what turns her on and feels good to her. If she is really, really wet, it should stop hurting then start to feel good. It may take time and patience, but it will be worth your while TRUST ME ON THIS ONE!
Get yourself some Astroglide. It works better then any other lubricant. You will be able to slide in much easier and it will make it much more comfortable for her. Even with foreplay it can be hard to get in especially if she's tight. Good luck and I hope you guys are using protection. You sound young.
Yes Well Its Because Her Pussy Is Tight And It Needs To Get Loose Before It Well Feel Okay But To Make It Loose Quicker All You Have To Do Is Massage It A Little But NOT Hard It Has To Be Soft And You Just Massage It A Little At The Top Of The Vigina And You Can Start Licking The Middle And Also Press Down Softly On The Bottom Of The Vigina And It Might Tast Bad But It Erotic For Her + Also Finger Her, Just Stick Your Fingers In And Slowly Move Around. She Will Start To Feel Better And You Can **** Her Then After A Few Weeks She Will Feel Okay And It Will Feel REALLY Good For Her And You!
i hope you're not like 13 years old.
if you dont want her to be so tight, you should try and finger her that might help. also if she is nervous that could be a problem too.
nobody can tell you what is the best way to have sex. it is a learning process.
also, please be safe!!
Get some lube. KY makes an excellent lube. Its always tough for the girl at first (not just the first time). She needs time to relax and get comfortable with it. Make sure she is not being rushed or scared that you guys will be caught.
Unless there is something physically wrong with her down there, it should stop hurting after a few times. It took me about 4-5 times for it to stop hurting.
Make sure you preheat the oven before you put the pizza in, if you know what i mean.
maybe there's a lack of lubrication...work on foreplay to make it "wetter" for her.
OR
she's just not ready for sex.
Lots of foreplay and or ky jelly.
she might not use to having something in her
Lube :) Go buy some. Orrr...use spit. Works like a charm.
ky jelly..
maybe shes not ready for sex,
Hi Superman,
Well there are any number of things that could be going wrong here:
1) You could be very large!
2) She might not be relaxed enough... if she imagines pain before it happens she will tighten up and actually cause the pain she is worried about...
3) Her hymen might be still not fully torn...or it could be healing after it breaks...if two flaps of skin touch back together the hymen will heal...
4) She could be not lubricated enough... you could try going down on her first... or use a water based lubricant
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5) you may be trying again to early... it might take some time for her to heal up a bit from the initial stretching... picture tearing some muscles some place on YOUR body and and then try and play with them the day after... so give her some time to recouperate
6) The best way for you to have sex may be with her on top so she can go as slow or fast as she pleases... it may also be comforting to be able to adjust the speed at which you enter her....
I hope this helps!!!
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Go really fast! It will hurt a bunch, though after that, nothing will hurt as much as that one time.
make her so horny she begs for it.
