What are some of your observations when it comes to sex and dating?

I've been through a lot recently, from personal issues regarding self-esteem and it's effects on relationships to the aftermath of breakups. For exmaple: It's been like hell trying to get over my first sexual partner.



I find it comforting to read what others have to share.



Please feel free to share any of your personal learning experiences when it comes to the crazy world of love, sex, and dating. I'm sure we can all relate one way or another.What are some of your observations when it comes to sex and dating?Through much pain and suffering I have established 4 rules for a relationship and 2 rules of behavior. These are deal breakers. If these rules can be followed then the rest of life's issues can be worked through.



1. NO HITTING. (this includes all forms of abuse)

2. NO LYING. (small white lies are acceptable. example: "No, I don't know what your best friend is getting you for your birthday." When in fact you helped his best friend pick it out.)

3. NO CHEATING. (Physical and/or emotional. Discuss what both forms entail, do not assume that he will know what you consider cheating)

4. NO STEALING.



Rules of Thumb. (for behavior)

1. Would you do what you are doing if your BF/GF/Spouse was standing right behind you and looking over your shoulder? No? Stop doing it, it is wrong. Yes? Continue on and have a good time.

2. Pick your fights. Is this issue truly worth fighting over? No? Stop arguing, let it go. Yes? Stick to your guns until they agree or a compromise can be reached.



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Best Wishes,What are some of your observations when it comes to sex and dating?sometimes way to get over something is "hair of the dog", i.e. u go get nice one-night stand.



or just decide sex is for when u are committed, like marriage type.



the above guideline was real good btw. about getting expectations all clear in your and their mind settled beforehand.



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