I'm in a new relationship with this girl and we've been dating for about 2 months now and everything is going smooth and nice, but the most we have done up to now is just kissed. I'm fine with everything and i'm not bothered that we haven't had sex as yet, but i'm not sure about her. Would she be thinking about the fact that we haven't had sex yet? And when we both reach to that point in the relationship who should be the one to initiate it?Are you expected to have sex with in the first stages of a relationship?Ah you see, it's not about making the decision yourself in that certain department - it's a mutually agreeable occurrence. If you have any doubts about what you think she might be thinking, then you should ask her. It's the only way to have an honest relationship with anyone - and that is by communication, and only so long as it's truthful communication.
She's your girlfriend buddy, sooner or later if things continue to go smoothly, then eventually - sooner or later - you'll both be ripping each other's clothing off and getting on with it. Until then, don't panic. There is never any real need to rush into sex within the confines of a long-term relationship - or any other relationship that seems to be serious (like yours which has only been going on for two months). Don't rush it, don't panic about it, and if you have concerns about your girlfriend then just make it clear that you don't mean any harm by asking and you don't want to argue about anything just in case it gets on her nerves or something, but just let her know what's bugging you.
The question isn't about expectation, you should never 'expect' things to happen in a relationship, because in doing so, you take the element of pleasant surprise away from it.Are you expected to have sex with in the first stages of a relationship?
i would think that u would have had sex by now but talk to her and c what she thinksAre you expected to have sex with in the first stages of a relationship?talk about it together and find out what you both want
wait a while longerAre you expected to have sex with in the first stages of a relationship?wait till your both ready hunn :} take care %26amp;%26amp; god bless!!Are you expected to have sex with in the first stages of a relationship?
i would have had sex by now but everyone is different. talk to her, not us
No.Are you expected to have sex with in the first stages of a relationship?
.When adults have sex is up to them. We cannot read her mind so do not know what she expects or hopes for. Continue as you are and when you are comfortable with the idea of having sex, then let her know...if she brings it up before you do, then go from there (at your comfort level).
Her virginity is sacred, wait until married, if you are serious,
you should be the one to initiate things . BE THE MAN . . . wear Nike shoes n . . . "just do it" . . .
With me, I'd be pissed off if the guy was dating asked me to have sex. Even if we'd been together for 3 years.
And, no, you're NOT expected to. Everyone's different. Some enjoy one-night stands, other's are for sex on the first date. Others, on the "other" hand, prefer to wait even until marriage.
your not expected to have sex at any stage of your relationship. Sex is something you do when YOUR ready not because you have been dating for a while. You will know when the moment is right don't try to do something your not ready for and just remember sex changes everything.
good luck.
C'mon, that's a bit soon! What's the rush? Take you're time, really get to know her then when it's time...let it happen.
I have sex within the first few weeks, but not everyone does. If she really wanted it she would have said or done something. Seems like she's waiting for you to initiate.
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