How long before sex actually becomes pleasurable for girls?

A girl at school told me that her and her boyfriend have had sex 8 times and that it hurts her every time and she doesn't feel any pleasure at all. What could be a reason for this? Or is this normal? I thought that it only hurt the first time then it was fine after. Please don't tell me this is what i have to look forward to! And why can't it hurt for guys? Seems unfair.How long before sex actually becomes pleasurable for girls?Perhaps the guy is rough and fast,not slow and gentle.How long before sex actually becomes pleasurable for girls?
idk for me it felt good the first timeHow long before sex actually becomes pleasurable for girls?He's doing it wrong.



It will be a little uncomfortable the first time if the hymen is intact, but as long as the guy doesn't slam her as hard as he can like Nacho Vidale would, and he is actually gentle and cares about how it feels to her, it will never hurt.
It depends on the girl really, some girl like myself find it more pleasure able the second time but its all on how your body is with the pain. and it is painful to guys but they find it pleasurable, so they don't really notice, because if you think about it they have to fit the penis inside a small space. Hoped that helped a littleHow long before sex actually becomes pleasurable for girls?im a virgin myself, so i dont know for sure but im just throwing a guess out there.......



is she getting "wet" enough? do they do foreplay? if so, does he need to do it longer to make her wetter? if theyre not doing it at all, maybe they should start.



hope ive helped? like i said im a V too, so idk. :(How long before sex actually becomes pleasurable for girls?
maybe your friend needs to go see a doctor. It sometimes hurts if you dont have sex often or frequently but usually if your body is ready there is no pain at all.
If you are taking it steady and slow it should be fine. Also, dry sex hurts. You have to lube it up. Some girls don't produce enough lube, and it hurts without using some kind of lubricant. The guy probably doesn't have a clue what he is doing either. My hubby took about 5 years to figure it out but now he's awesome. Good luck with that!How long before sex actually becomes pleasurable for girls?
First and foremost...



Why does her "boyfriend" keep continuing to do the same thing again and again -- and why does she keep cooperating -- when it is clearly causing her pain?



Do they discuss it like thoughtful human beings while it is happening, or is this "robotic repetition"?



Do they think they should discuss it with someone who is likely to be truly helpful (doctor, qualified sex therapist)?



Or do they think they should just keep doing something that is painful for her?
If they are both new to sex, then it is understandable. It is often not pleasurable for a while, until the couple find what they like to do and what works, etc. It could be a big part that she may not be emotionally ready for sex. This would result in her 'clamming up' which makes penetration almost impossible. She needs to ensure she feels entirely comfortable with everything.

It does normally hurt the first time if the girls' hymen (skin on entrance to vagina) tears, which can also cause bleeding. However it varies for every girl, some it takes longer for the hymen to break, some wont even be aware it did break.

It does seem unfair, i know, but try not to worry and just make sure you are 100% ready when you do decide to have sex.

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