Is it ok to role play and fantasize while having sex with your partner?

Like me and my boyfriend sometimes fanasize that we are having a 3 way or 4 way with famous people, people we know in our lives, and we watch porn together. Is there an issue with that? It usually sparks us and keeps our sex life good. Also, will doing a 3 way or 4 way end or damage a relationship, or can it be done? We have been discussing it.Is it ok to role play and fantasize while having sex with your partner?Role play and fantasy is normal and can be a heathy part of any sex life. Think carefully about the 3 or 4 way. It is a rare gay man that can allow their partner to have sex (perceived better) sex than they have with you. It can tear a relationship apart.Is it ok to role play and fantasize while having sex with your partner?Role playing and fantasizing is great. I do it with my boyfriend. We love to watch porn together. I think it's very healthy and good for a relationship to be open about sex and your desires.

As for the 3 or 4 way. It isn't for everyone. It has been known to hurt or destroy a relationship. It's not something I would ever do. However, there are plenty of couples that do these types of sexual activities and are completely happy, if not happier than before they started doing it. As long as you have good communication between the two of you and it is something both of you really want then I don't see why it wouldn't work. But you have to make sure that both of you are 100% into it before going in or it most likely will end up ruining your relationship. Also, before doing it you guys should probably come up with some kind of "safe word" you can say that will signify to the other that they are not comfortable and understand that everything should stop right then and there.Is it ok to role play and fantasize while having sex with your partner?Well if you're both happy with your sex life, then it's nobody else's business if it's an issue or not.

But don't have a 3 or a 4 way, that WILL ruin your relationship. Somebody will end up getting jealous and hurt in the end. Don't do that.