I can't take my mind off of her ................and that what's so mind boggling!!?

Okay so I have this online friend( I went to school w/ her cuzin so I know she's legit, calm down) I'm so indulged in her life that I don't have one of my own. I spend evry waking moment thinking about her, how she responded to my message, how it's cool that she skateboards, I try to understand y she likes an unattractive guy and she's attractive, I go out and think that I may see her cuz she visits her dad sumtimes in my home city. She isn't my first infatuation, but she's just the worse. what should I do, cuz I want to back to having a normal life, it's just when I was away at college I didn't have ne friends and she was my only friend and technically still is but now she is moving on and doing big things w/ her life while I sit back wondering what's next w/her. I want to leave but I want to stick around cuz she has fame in her future(she can sing very well) and her sis goes to my drean school(Stanford) and I still want to connect w/her so I can visit 1day. do you see my dilemma HELPI can't take my mind off of her ................and that what's so mind boggling!!?
I know what you mean, and i kmnow you probably won't take this advice because its gonna be hard to stop obsessing over her since you've alreayd known her so long. But you should probably cut off contact with her for a little while, atleast until you get your life back. The more your not around her the more you wont think about her. You wont be thinking about her reply to your message because there won't be a message to think about, ya see what i'm saying? Just spend some time without her and once you get your life back maybe you can try to become friends with her but just not talk as much. Good luck!
you're a girl...or is it just your avatar?I can't take my mind off of her ................and that what's so mind boggling!!?
Get a life, Pal. You're bordering on obsessive. No, wait, you crossed the border. Forget her and move on.
DO YOU KNOW ANY KID SITED LIKE MYSPACE? THAT AN 11 YR OLD CAN SIGN UP FOR? YOU KNOW A SITE WITH A PROFILE?I can't take my mind off of her ................and that what's so mind boggling!!?
Maybe you should actually talk to HER about it?



or honestly try to move on, find someone that you can be with and dont obsess over an online person been there done that its NOT worth it! :) good luck
Since everybody is being immature I'll try to give you a real answer.

I know its hard but tell her, you know I have a crush on you and I want to be with you but its so hard because I'm not sure you feel the same way.

If you aren't able to sit and talk with her try to focus on maybe anime, or an Idol. Obsess over that and you should find that your obsession with her may take a back seat.
It sounds like you have a strange obsession with her. You need to work on your self-esteem, it sounds like this is a recurring thing. It seems like you really admire her and wish you where in her place, kind of living vicariously through her.



I think you need to force yourself to go out and meet new people, make new friends. That way, the few you do have won't feel like you're totally obsessed with them. Trust me, it shows.



Good Luck, if worse comes to worse see a professional there are usually school psychologists you can talk to.