Please help me! I am so mind boggled... am i asking for too much?

I was in India for the past 3 years I met this guy at work.. and we became good friends we are so compatible with work and personal life... he proposed to me but i said no... coz i was not ready.. and then i switched from that country 5 months back coz of my job i got a better offer and i moved. when i shifted he called and proposed again and this time i felt it was right and i said yes! i will marry u....now i work elsewhere and we have been dating online 5months.

Lately i ve been thinking about my life with him... I come from a well off background living decent all my life I i am not saying money is everything but i just want to sustain the same lifestyle which is not possible with him as he earns not even half of my salary and his family background is not too happening either... they are no doubt nice people... but marriage is a big commitment... and what i need to know is that am i on the right track??

he says he will keep me happy no matter what.... but how would that be possible when he would not be able to meet my needs i dnt run behind money or richness but i just want to sustain the same lifestyle that i am living now and have been grown up with...

Y do my folks have to support me n my spouse after marriage... If i have to marry this guy i would have to again quit my job and go back to india and find another job that would pay me not as much as what i am getting here and then support his family... dn our marriage what ever i would have saved up till now i would have to blow it up on the wedding coz he says he doesn't have enough money for the wedding... he says that he believes in simple joys in life and has never had so much money and he knows one day he is going to make it big but at the moment... also the initial setup of the house that we would move into after marriage would be my expense. I am now just a little confused and not comfortable about this whole thing....

What do u think?? Am i asking for too much?? I just want a happy life with my man who is there to take care of me and us... he says he needs no support from my family but when they would see that i am not getting what i want they would tend to extend the helping hand...

Lately, so much has been in my head and i have not been able to behave the same way with my bf... when he calls or messg i ve been feeling different... coz this is always running at the back of my head...

He was suppose to visit me on 16th of this month but coz of my behavior he sent me a mail saying he is not going to be visiting me and that we are different and priorities have changed and that i am a different person now... and that he has canceled the tickets i said please come down and we shall talk it over he said hes got no money the reimbursement is going to take a month or so... he says if you want then send me the ticket and i will come

I am so confused.... what should i do?? please help!!Please help me! I am so mind boggled... am i asking for too much?
Better forget him, there seems to be too many hassles, and u have a right to your priorities.

It is true love is blind, so u have love him, let it be a happy love story.

Marriage has nothing to do with love, it is a contract an agreement to be together, come what may

If the difference r too much, it is better to forget.

U may get a better package offfer, of love and money, as per your requirement, so give marriage some time.Please help me! I am so mind boggled... am i asking for too much?
What I've learned about marriage is that somewhere down the line there is going to be a compromising decision. He doesn't seem to be understanding enough to compromise. So the question is whether this relationship is worth it to you to compromise how you feel about you lifestyle. Is his love priority over your desire to retain that lifestyle, or vice versa? It seems to be a battle of who wants the relationship to work more. I know it's not as cut and dry as that, because the future isn't set. A year from now he could have the job he needs to be able to provide for you the lifestyle you desire. It's your choice on whether or not to take the risk in compromising your personal desires for the better of the relationship. Or you could end it and move on not ever knowing if the decision you made was ever worth it.