Why is my fiance at a strip club?

My fiance is in Alaska for work for the next few months and I haven't been able to get a hold of him for a few days. I looked at our online bank statement and it shows that he took $100 out at a strip club. I am livid. It boggles my mind that he wouldn't even tell me he's going there, and that he hasn't bothered to call me. So I'd really like to know why, from all the men, and women who have had this problem, why men go to strip clubs. Am I just not good enough for him? I mean, I know he's without sex for a few months, but christ, if he loved me, I don't think he'd do this to me.Why is my fiance at a strip club?
It has nothing to do with you. A lot of guys go to a strip club to have a beer and hang out with friends and coworkers. I think a lot of women get upset because of what happens in places like Chippendale's where the women engage in sex with the dancers on stage,so they assume their men are going to do the same. The truth about strip clubs is that they are no different than a Hooter's or a Wing House joint. If your man thinks that a stripper is sexier than you,he probably would have never married you. Think about this; why do we guys pay to go into a club full of men who cannot have anything on display?
A $100 with an Alaskan stripper will get U whatever U want with herWhy is my fiance at a strip club?
He's away for a few months, did you expect him just to sit in a hotel room and vegetate? because he is having a few beers and watching some skank take her clothes off does not mean he is cheating, nor does it mean he intends to cheat.

In all reality he is probably bored.
Could be anything. SOmetimes, particularly in a remote location, it's a social thing for men to do. Could be he was near the club and needed cash. However it's worth discussing with himWhy is my fiance at a strip club?
woah he's taking his bachelor's party way too early. maybe he wants one last taste of the used to be single life before spending his life with you. its entertainment i guess? nothing personal. still kinda wrong even though
well if it was me, i would wait until he came home and then ask him straight if he went there. if he loves u then he will tell the truth, if he doesn't then i think u need to have a talk and make a decision about a few things!
You have so many questions for yourself and others to answer, best the best persont to answer them is yr fiance and you should take up this matter with him. Yes I do agree, if he truely loved you, he wouldnt be there, but you never know if any friends forced him etc, but then he should also discuss this with u, be patient, talk to him n see the result, you will know if he is lying and u would be the best judge to understand its time you moved on...in your life
maybe he's in stress?

i mean he's not getting it for months.
i understand ur worryin its kinda a guy thing to go to a stripclub even though hes in love with you here is what i suggest maybe when he comes back prove ur love for him hug him kiss him tell him how much you love him , the last thing you want to do is question him about it ,try asking What did you do while you were away? also be aware of certain things just keep an eye out on how he behaves :) good luck
Many times when working away (i've done it a lot) your working with a group of guys, there's lot's one one-upmanship, lots of bragging, lots of macho posturing going on and you get taken to a strip club or similar.



You have to work with these guys day to day and it would be suicide not to go, even if it wasn't your thing, even if you were GAY!.

Working in a male enviroment like this means you have to get involved, join in and be a part of this almost neandethal mentality even if you are in a high position, this isn't just a manual workers thing.



While he's away these men will be his social life, he entertainment and company while away from you and he will have felt obligated to go, you don't want him sat alone in a hotel room every night, do you?



From the outside this might look bad but it can be very innocent and he might have had little choice but to go along with the group.
ALL my friend marry or not will now and then visit a massage parlor for sex and they will continue until one day they lose interest in sex.

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Comm om which guy don't want to have sex with a beautiful girl? Unless you are the most beautiful and sexiest woman in the world otherwise expect him or any man to look for some sex now and then and especially when his woman is not around.
Q: Why is my fiance at a strip club?

A: Because you're not a stripper.



Unless you have the ability to transform into all the different types of women/race out there, you'll never keep a guy from looking at another woman. Much like he can't keep you from fantasizing about Brad pit, denzel washington or whom ever that turns you on.



"I know he's without sex for a few months"

You "think" his with out sex for a few months.One thing i have noticed is that 90% of guys will cheat if the opportunity presents itself. Maybe your fiance falls in that 10%.Given your fiance's situation, he should not even consider going to strip bars. Temptation and urges may get the best of him.