How to say no to sex without sounding like a prude?

I have an ex boyfriend who was all nice and stuff when were friends. But when we become more than that he became verbally abusive. He originally told me he was not centered around sex but that was a lie. He kept asking me for sex and when i didnt give it to him he called me a prude and a slut and a whore and lots of other names. Why did he do this?How to say no to sex without sounding like a prude?a bl0wjob will solve both problemsHow to say no to sex without sounding like a prude?
that is not the best answer for my question he prob voted for himself only a jerk would say that and the same type of jerk that the question states

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How to say no to sex without sounding like a prude?because he is an A hole. calling you a prude AND a whore is an oxymoron. He was only nice to begin with because he wanted sex and when he wasn't getting any he turned into a dink. Stick to your beliefs and goals, If someone get MAD at you for not putting out let them say what they want about you and leave them. Better to have a rep as a prude then a slut trust me. And you aren't a prude for wanting wait. sex complicates things, you're just being smart and now aren't you glad you didn't sleep with such a jerk? You'll never regret not sleeping with someone and once you do you can't take it back.
he may not be centered around sex, but everyone has their urges. i still think that he is an @sshole, and that he's only verbally abusing you to get into your pants for you to give in, but it's an instinct kind of thing.

it doesnt make you a prude or anything, it has nothing to do with you.How to say no to sex without sounding like a prude?Men like us sometimes are complete morons! I'll admit that I use dramatics to get my way sometimes. If someone really loves you he wouldn't pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. And if he's completely cool about it, then that's something. He's showing signs of maturity and a whole lot of love. And believe me, you won't see this everyday. So if you find someone like this, don't ever let go. Don't let anybody put you down or order you around. It's a free country! Peace!How to say no to sex without sounding like a prude?
MEN USE VERBAL ABUSE TO BRING YOU DOWN...DOWN SO LOW THAT YOU BEGAN TO FEEL LIKE HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO WANTS YOU. THAT IS HOW SOME MEN PLAY THE GAME AND THAT IS WHY YOU SEE SO MANY WOMEN IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU LACK SELF-ESTEEM ITS EASIER FOR A MAN TO GET WHAT HE WANTS FROM YOU. YOU HAVE TO BE STONG AND KNOW THAT YOU CAN HAVE ANY MAN YOU WANT AND DONT SETTLE FOR ONE WHO PRESSURES YOU TO HAVE SEX. IF THATS THE CASE YOU WILL END UP REGRETTING IT. AND NEXT TIME HE SAYS STUFF LIKE THAT JUST JOKINGLY SAY "IF YOU ARE TRYING TO GET IN MY PANTS THATS NOT THE APPROACH YOU SHOULD TAKE DUMBAZZ" YOU HAVE TO BE SMART SWEETY BECAUSE MEN WILL DO ANYTHING AND SAY ANYTHING TO GET SOME....
He was likely just trying to be nice to get in your pants. When he got frustrated and couldn't have his way he became a bastard and you are fortunate to have learned that as soon as possible and find someone else that truly cares for you.How to say no to sex without sounding like a prude?
to make you feel bad so he can get into your pants but don't fall for that sh** !If you don't want to then you don't have too.your not a whore ,slut,or a prude he just wants to see if you will give in .guys are dumb
someone that insults you is only showing how insecure and mentally inferior they are ... whether man or women. And the only way it hurts is if you believe them. People like that are not worth your time.
Because some guys are dickheads