My boyfriend and I had sex today and it hurts any tips on it not hurting next time?

I need some tips on how to make sex not hurt. This is my 2nd time having sex. The 1st time it hurt like hell. But this time it hurt but not that bad.My boyfriend and I had sex today and it hurts any tips on it not hurting next time?I'm 21 and just lost my virginity within this past year so I can relate.



The first time does hurt, but after that it will progressively get better. For me, the first and second times were a little painful since I'm "small" down there but by the third it started to feel good and I didn't have any pain anymore.



Start off slower and then you can go faster once it starts to feel comfortable. Try being on top so you can control how deep you want it. Also, relax and breathe because if you're tense, you'll get "tighter" in a bad way lol. I've never need lubes but I hear that works too.My boyfriend and I had sex today and it hurts any tips on it not hurting next time?
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hope that will help you as well. keep using answers.yahoo.comMy boyfriend and I had sex today and it hurts any tips on it not hurting next time?Well the first couple of times always hurt when having sex. But you both can try some lubricant that will help with the pain and make it much more comfortable. He needs to go slow with you.. and take time. That area is not used to penetration ... try to breath.. and relax while you are having sex if you can. If you are tense down there due to fear, it will make it even more painful. So, go and buy some lubricant.. take it slow and if it truly hurts too bad.. just wait.. don't do it unless you are really ready.

You can try taking a warm bath to help with the discomfort now.

Oh.. and don't forget to use protection!!!
U can try jus doin *******....it doesnt hurt

yet the warmness from ur mouth is very enjoyable to the male's dick(4 me atleast)

Practise Practise Practise~the more u haf sex the more enjoyable it is 4 both of u;)



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GOODLUCK!!! xoJonahMy boyfriend and I had sex today and it hurts any tips on it not hurting next time?practice masturbating, to make yourself not so tight.

tell him to go slow %26amp; easy, so you can get the hang of it.

and before you start, make sure you're really wet.My boyfriend and I had sex today and it hurts any tips on it not hurting next time?
Lubrication is key! The wetter you are the smoother things will be. Sometimes you just aren't naturally wet enough so get a water based lube if you need to. I would also recommend you being on top, that way you can control depth and speed a little better. Communication is also very important. Tell your boyfriend what feels good and what doesn't feel so good. Boys aren't mind readers! Ultimately, it's going to be a little uncomfortable your first few times, but don't let that put you off. It gets better with practice :)
Have him stretch you a little with his fingers first and use plenty of lubricant. It gets better after a few times.My boyfriend and I had sex today and it hurts any tips on it not hurting next time?
Sex is always gonna hurt at first. If you keep doing it and doing it, the pains gonna go away and it starts to feel good.
Oh.........sex!!
make ur hole bigger by fingering and use lube next time