Why do husbands associate Sex and Romance like there one in the same?

My husband thinks when were having sex that he is being romantic.

But to me Romance and sex is two different things...

Romance leads to sex but I don't put them together.



Kisses on the beach, a dozen roses, love letter, a sweet kiss I romantic..Sex can be romantic but I don't see why guys think that because were having sex that we consider that romantic.Why do husbands associate Sex and Romance like there one in the same?hes a guyWhy do husbands associate Sex and Romance like there one in the same?
I dont know about your husband, but I agree with you, There is big line between being romantic and sex. Let me guess, your husband was never the romantic type because if he was he would know the difference. Even though he may not think about the difference, he's not an idiot and if you tell him I am sure that he would respond well to you.Why do husbands associate Sex and Romance like there one in the same?To men sex and romance are the same thing. Its their way of expressing their love for us. Trust me I have the exact same issues with my husband. and I actually asked my pastor about this and he put it into terms that I could understand. Men are different from women and have a harder problem expressing themselves unlike us. When they want sex , thats how they express romance. In real life, that is the way men are, but in romance books/movies is how we would love men to be.
My husband has no concept of romance!! The most romantic he gets is slapping my ***. He thinks he has to sweep me off my feet to be romantic so he doesnt even try. Explaining what romance is doesnt do a bit of good in one ear and out the other.Men need to get a clue! They always talk **** that they know it all and they got game but they dont once they get there first nut off thats the end of romance. I am right with you!!When you find out why they are so clueless let me in on the secret.Why do husbands associate Sex and Romance like there one in the same?Most men don't feel a need for the "romance" like most women do. It is a difference in the sexes. Complaining about it is usually counterproductive. Instead suggest doing something romantic with him and show him how much it means to you when you do it.Why do husbands associate Sex and Romance like there one in the same?
Same with me he thinks sex is romantic, girl we need to show them what romance is then show them how that romance leads to sex so tomorrow if he is sitting on the couch or w.e start being romantic with him then before you lead to sex tell him"know that was being romantic.....now this romance leads us to sex...........GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
Sorry to hear of your predicament. Yes they are two different things. And yes romance in sex is wonderfull. Once a week ? Come on.....is he serious ??? Romantic walks on the beach, romantic sunsets, romantic dinners, romantic moments that last forever.,.....Why do husbands associate Sex and Romance like there one in the same?
Because men and women are just WIRED DIFFERENTLY. He's not doing it to hurt your feelings.

Just tell him in simple terms what you like -- don't try to trick him or make it into some kind of test... they'll usually do their best if they know what'll make you happy.



Good Luck, Sweetie!!! :)
I think you should explain to him what you feel is romantic like what you said above, after he may just get it.



Tell him its something that would make you feel happier and if he really loves you he'll understand and make an effort for you.Good luck
They watch too many movies...haha. But typically if they do something romantic, they DO get sex...they are associated. Couples who are more romantic and passionate with one another tend to have more sex. Which is why you lack romance and only have sex once a week.
I'm sorry, but I was a husband and I have to say, sex and romance are two completely different things.
Sex IS romantic. And they are def. linked. You should be happy that your husband thinks of sex as romance; this is much better than him thinking of it as merely a physical activity or something.



And what about romance coming from women. There is all this talk about how men aren't romantic; sometimes men feel the same way towards women. Don't be hatin on men! :)
Because men have the emotional content of a pea.



They are incapable.
cause they think taking the garbage out is romance,