Question about Black culture?

I'm not trolling or trying to stir up controversy. I really want to know the answer to this.



Why is it that in Black culture, when a man cheats on his wife, she blames the other woman rather than blaming her husband?



This boggles my mind. I just don't understand it at all.



When my ex-husband cheated on me, I didn't blame his girlfriend - she thought he was single and had no kids. Now he has 3 children from 3 different women, and he is still cruising online for new women and still saying he's single with no kids or exes.



He's still a total douche-bag, and his women, although fairly dumb, are still not to blame.Question about Black culture?
CAUSE ITS DEY FAULT FO GETTIN US ALL EXCITED. we black man aint gonna be controlling ourselfes when we be all excited, and its da triflin hoes fault fo bein all turnin us on and such.
How would you know this? Have you witnessed something like this first hand, or are you only basing your statement off what you see on tv? If so, then i could say the same exact thing about white people, or any other race for that manner. You see it all the time in soap operas, movies, tv shows, etc. The woman always blames the homewrecker, and i always question why she doesn't blame her husband instead. But it's not just a "black culture" thing. I think it's portrayed that way throughout society throughout any race. Why? Who knows.Question about Black culture?
I doubt if you did proper research to form this conclusion about Black culture. So I advise that you rethink you're experiment and do it over. This time you should take a survey from Black women in a certain area and ask them who would they blame if their husband cheated on them. Then you would be closer to having some actual facts then stating an opinion based on the little experience you claim to have.
cause of jealousy...



they think that their husbands will be with the mistresses, after they dumped the husbands... and they will end up alone.



So that is why they are fighting the mistress.... so that they won't be alone and to keep their husbands, believe that their husbands won't cheat on them anymore.



Who wants to be alone with kids?Question about Black culture?
oh right you racist WhItey.

Black ppl don't cheat. we love eachother unlike the white man and woman who show more love to the family dog then their own children. black ppl don't blame anybody.
"black culture" ?



That would be a good idea.

Rap/hip hop and things involving a ball is NOT a culture.
Question about black culture... they don't have one, we took it away from them.
It's not just black culture.
do blacks even have culture?
is your xhusband Black?