IS there a way I can change this?

We dated for 4 months and then broke up....we weren't in contact for a number of months and then we started playing tennis together over the summer...that led to tennis, have dinner, fool around...I am going away for xmas and I haven't seen him for a few weeks but we talk every day online. We were supposed to get together before I left but he's just not willing to commit to a date. He called me and asked me to lunch today. I wasn't home. So I called him and he said he's got plans to hang out and watch the game with friends and he'd talk to me when I get back.



He's 42, he's divorced, been that way for 6 years. When I said I was dissapointed, he asked what is it, do I need a little booty call? I just wanted to snuggle- but that would have been nice. I told him I just missed seeing him that's all. And a little makeout would be nice. And he said yeah, he could use that too. Then suggested he come over BEFORE going to watch the game with his friends. I put the kabash on that. I just wanted to have a night in with a fire in the firplace, a pizza delivered and watch the game and snuggle. That he chose anything else over the possiblily of sex, pizza and the game boggles my mind.



He called to ask me to go to lunch, so I go, well, he misses me somewhat.

WTF.



I really want to not like him. I try. I just do.IS there a way I can change this?
Nope. He's just not that into you...