We went on a date. We made out and he got a bit hands-y. He said he had a great time and would like to do it again within a couple of weeks.
I had family issues the following days so there wasn't any contact. When we started up again I noticed he was a little more aloof so I started wondering. Later he just brings up he has a blind date. I'm thinking "Fine, you can do that. But why tell me?" He then comes back and gives me details. I'm a little pissed. He had never told me he wasn't attracted to me.
So I call him out and he reacts poorly to me telling him that I would rather have him tell me he's not attracted than do what he did. He goes on to say that I'm too pale (my family is northern European and it was just getting over winter but okay), he doesn't like the way I dress (the same as in my pictures?), and doesn't like my voice (I told him it was somewhat nasally prior to the date, but not that bad).
So why on Earth would he get so physical with someone he didn't find physically attractive? It's so mind boggling...and horribly shallow.So why did he do this?
Probably to boost his ego. Men are simple creatures with simple minds. Especially as 'being too pale' is an excuse. What an ****!So why did he do this?
He probably just wanted sex, he sounds like a self absorbed prick. What he said about you was a bit unfair, you're an individual like the rest of us and I'm sure you're beautiful :) don't let it get you downSo why did he do this?
You will learn that most guys don't care about looks when it comes to sex or foreplay. Do they want a pretty girlfriend that they can show off? Yes, but one night stands or random dates, well it's not a priority. As long as their is a little attraction or the girl isn't completely ugly then they are fair game. I'm only telling you this because I have two older brothers and my best friend is a male so I just ask them.
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