Monday, January 23, 2012

Is online dating too much in womens favor?

i know of women who would make a profile on dating sites, upload a few pictures and have dozens of responses from men.



these women can then pick the best men among them and date several guys within a span of a month! they can also decide whether to get intimate or not, follow up or not etc. they get to call all these shots.





here is a blog of a woman who dates men like this. its mind boggling how women can pull this off.



http://thewrongfish.com/?page_id=104Is online dating too much in womens favor?
No - I do not think online dating favors women. Yes, we get many responses. About 1/2 of these are pictures of penises. So we have to delete those. Than half of those are looking for naked pics of you. Delete those.



You have now eliminated 3/4 of your responses within the first few minutes. Now you can respond to one or two that don't look like perverts %26amp; serial killers.



Out of two, one responds. The other has been online in the past 24 hours but hasn't responded to you in 2 weeks.



That is online dating in a nutshell. It sucks for everyone.
Please remember, that men are historically not the greatest communicators...often slow...sparse...delayed in their responses...It's just the way it is in a very real and general sense.

After having tried online dating on two sites (higher end security sites I might add) I can only agree that both men and women play the same "game". It's the lookie-loo-I'm-a-babe syndrome...where they post more than enough pics of themselves in an effort to attract. Trust me dear. In this regard? BOTH men and women play the same game - pick the favorite person first date and if that doesn't work out? Go on to the next...



Indeed, online dating in general? "Mind boggling" in the sense authenticity is truly lacking, if not real circumspection!



In my opinion? The best men and women play the oldest game in the world, offline, with meeting one another in face to face, social venues.



GraceIs online dating too much in womens favor?
"these women can then pick the best men among them and date several guys within a span of a month! they can also decide whether to get intimate or not, follow up or not etc. they get to call all these shots."



I don't see what the problem is.
I have a face that is not "marketable" to the majority of men... and had great difficulty finding dates when I went on dating sitesIs online dating too much in womens favor?
Maybe you should try uploading a picture that doesn't make you look like you are farting...





Just a thought...
Yes, it happens a lot now. It`s one way to pass the time!



A better hobby than train spotting, for sure.

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